First you hate them,
Then you get used to them,
Enough time passed you get to depend on them.
Usually when people face something wrong or different, they cannot follow it first. However, they start getting used to it, and along years passed, they finally depend upon it, and if it is attractive cannot help doing it. In the movie ‘The Shawshank Redemption”, this ‘it’ is about corruption of prison guards. They are strongly depends on prisoners who treated them well.
As an example of world, I would like to mention the ‘culture’ itself. People move to a culture to another, they found difference of clothes, food and houses. Some of them would hate it because of loves for their own culture. On the other hand, to survive climate there, they have to follow the local culture and they would get used to it. As a community, they will help each other and start depending on other. As a result, they will love new culture. That means when they move back to their ordinal culture they would be confused, like when they meet new culture as well.
Then you get used to them,
Enough time passed you get to depend on them.
Usually when people face something wrong or different, they cannot follow it first. However, they start getting used to it, and along years passed, they finally depend upon it, and if it is attractive cannot help doing it. In the movie ‘The Shawshank Redemption”, this ‘it’ is about corruption of prison guards. They are strongly depends on prisoners who treated them well.
As an example of world, I would like to mention the ‘culture’ itself. People move to a culture to another, they found difference of clothes, food and houses. Some of them would hate it because of loves for their own culture. On the other hand, to survive climate there, they have to follow the local culture and they would get used to it. As a community, they will help each other and start depending on other. As a result, they will love new culture. That means when they move back to their ordinal culture they would be confused, like when they meet new culture as well.