日本では曾野綾子さんが女性に対して「出産したたおやめなさい」と言って論争になっていたようですが、似たようなことを言う人はどこにでもいるもので、
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Why women still need husbands
By Suzanne VenkerPublished December 06, 2013FoxNews.com
DEC. 10 2013 8:39 AM
Fox News Implores Women to Become Financially Dependent on Men
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男性は働くの生きがいなんだから、男性に養ってもらって、女性はせいぜいパートをやっていれば、バランスのとれた生活ができるのだから、フルタイムの仕事など辞めなさい、と。
個人はどんなライフスタイルをとってもよく、保守的な生き方もありなわけですけど、しかし、それを一般化して押し付ける原理主義的なやり方がまずいわけで、やはり、多様なライフスタイルが認められるような社会を選択していく、というのがこれからの世界のあり方になっていくのだろう、と思います。
Fox news
Why women still need husbands
By Suzanne VenkerPublished December 06, 2013FoxNews.com
Financial independence is a great thing, but you can’t take your paycheck to bed with you. And there’s nothing empowering about being beholden to an employer when what you really want is to have a baby. That’s dependency of a different sort.
This is the conclusion to which most women have come. Research shows that what women want more than anything else is not to work full-time and year-round but to live balanced lives.
Lean on your husband.
According to Pew Research, “Dads are much more likely than moms to say they want to work full time. And when it comes to what they value most in a job, working fathers place more importance on having a high-paying job, while working mothers are more concerned with having a flexible schedule.”
That women prefer part-time work is simply irrefutable. It was true back in 2007, and it’s even true among Ivy League graduates! Study after study, both here and abroad (the majority of women in the UK, Spain and other countries seek some combination of paid work and family work) shows women as a whole (the Sheryl Sandbergs notwithstanding) want multifaceted lives. They want balance.
And there’s only one way to get it: rely on a man’s more linear career goals. Unlike women, a man’s identity is inextricably linked to his paycheck. That’s how most men feel a sense of purpose. Indeed, research shows men see it as their duty to support their families even when their wives make as much money (or more) as they do!
DEC. 10 2013 8:39 AM
Fox News Implores Women to Become Financially Dependent on Men
1.9k
197
495
By Amanda Marcotte
After her male co-hosts Tucker Carlson and Clayton Morris fawned over Venker's truly exceptional argument, host Anna Kooiman, who described herself as a single career-oriented woman, asked Venker for her advice. Venker darkly warned her to give up her dreams, telling her that, once married, "time will be your greatest enemy" and "there's not enough time in the day to do everything." The only solution is to make your peace with that hard truth, quit your job, and "let your husband bring home that full-time income so you can have more of a balanced life."
How it is that men have enough time in the day to work full time but women do not is a mystery left unexamined in this segment. Venker does say, "Biology matters. Men and women are different," but fails to elaborate on what those differences are and how they make it so men have all the time they need to work full time, but women can't pull it off.
男性は働くの生きがいなんだから、男性に養ってもらって、女性はせいぜいパートをやっていれば、バランスのとれた生活ができるのだから、フルタイムの仕事など辞めなさい、と。
個人はどんなライフスタイルをとってもよく、保守的な生き方もありなわけですけど、しかし、それを一般化して押し付ける原理主義的なやり方がまずいわけで、やはり、多様なライフスタイルが認められるような社会を選択していく、というのがこれからの世界のあり方になっていくのだろう、と思います。
