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By Drew Millard
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Jul 12 2016, 2:14am
How to Know When You're Masturbating Too Much
FBでながれてきたが、２０１６年の記事
オナニーのやりすぎについて
Although I have met many people in my life that I'd label "masturbation experts," Laqueur is a true authority on the subject: In 2003, he wrote Solitary Sex: A Cultural History of Masturbation. When we speak on the phone, he's just gotten home from walking his dog and had gotten a late start because he went to the opera the night before.
"Doing things by yourself is thought to be weird," he tells me. "Often people masturbate not because they can't find someone to have sex with, but out of abjection—they can't write, they can't sleep, or something else is off." He went on to note that "masturbating before you write is a constant trope in literature."
Still, there are limits when it comes to pounding off, and those limits tend to involve blood. As the clinical director for the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, Alexandra Katehakis has heard her fair share of horror stories involving men with bloody and blistered penises, as well as women using their vibrators to the point where it burns their skin. According to her, if someone's at the point of self-sex self-harm, "it's not even about achieving orgasm—it's about a repetitive compulsive behavior." And such behaviors are potential red flags for issues like obsessive compulsive disorder, or childhood sexual abuse.
Katehakis also warns that, for men, excessively wanking it to porn can lead to an inability to get it up when it comes time for real-life sex. "We come across that pretty often," she says. "If young men in their twenties and thirties are struggling with erectile dysfunction, the first thing they should ask is, 'How much porn am I looking at?'"
Regardless of the patina of indignity surrounding the subject, there is truly no such thing as too much masturbation. As Franklin puts it, the act of rubbing one out is not dissimilar to snowflake formation: "There's a thousand different styles and frequencies for masturbation, and none of them are wrong."
結論からいうと、人それぞれでやりすぎはない。ただ、注意すべき点として、こすり過ぎて血が出たらまずい、ポルノみながらやって、本番でたたなくなる場合がある、と。
solitary sex っていう表現はしゃれているね。セックスする相手がいないときではなく、文章が書けなかったり、寝られなかったり、なにかしっくりしないときにオナニーする人が多い、と。
choking the chicken
another word for masterbation,
マスターベーションは、「鶏の首をしめる」ともいうそうで、なんでかな、と画像検索したらわかった。
