Here's why intelligent people are happiest alone
27 Nov 2018
Robby Berman
友だちがいると幸福が増進されるけど、一体それはなぜか？・・・・というと、狩猟や食料分配、繁殖、子育てなどで、友達がいたほうが生存率が高くなるからだ、と。
もっとも、大抵の人にとって、親しい友だちがいるひとほど幸福度は増進されるが、しかし、知的な人々は、独りでいるほうが幸せを感じているのだ、と。
知的な人たちは、目的遂行に熱中していて、人と付き合っている生活には不満を感じている、と。ただ、面白いことに、より多く時の時間を社交に費やすのは、知的である人たちの徴標でもあるのだ、と。
27 Nov 2018
Robby Berman
While it seems self-evident that good friendships increase life satisfaction in most people, Li and Satoshi and Kanazawa note, surprisingly, that they know of only a single study that looked at the reason why this is true, and which concluded friendships satisfy psychological needs such as relatedness, the need to be needed, and an outlet for sharing experiences. Still, the reason a person has those needs remains unexplained.
They say that friendships/alliances were vital for survival, in that they facilitated group hunting and food sharing, reproduction, and even group child-rearing.
The data they analyzed supports the assumption that good friendships — and a few good ones is better than lots of weaker ones — do significantly increase life satisfaction for most people.
In highly intelligent people, though, the finding is reversed: Smart people feel happier alone than when others, even good friends, are around. A “healthy” social life actually leaves highly intelligent people with less life satisfaction. Is it because their desires are more aspirational and goal-oriented, and other people are annoyingly distracting?
However, just in case this makes too much sense, the study also found that spending more time socializing with friends is actually an indicator of higher intelligence! This baffling contradiction is counter-intuitive, at least. Unless these smart people are not so much social as they are masochistic
友だちがいると幸福が増進されるけど、一体それはなぜか？・・・・というと、狩猟や食料分配、繁殖、子育てなどで、友達がいたほうが生存率が高くなるからだ、と。
もっとも、大抵の人にとって、親しい友だちがいるひとほど幸福度は増進されるが、しかし、知的な人々は、独りでいるほうが幸せを感じているのだ、と。
知的な人たちは、目的遂行に熱中していて、人と付き合っている生活には不満を感じている、と。ただ、面白いことに、より多く時の時間を社交に費やすのは、知的である人たちの徴標でもあるのだ、と。
