People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one.
Leo J. Burke
I hadn't written my blog for over a week, because I got sick!!!
I was in bed for more than 3 days, even after i got back to work I was still sick and my body was suffering from pain. it started from noro virus but it wasn't as bad symptoms as everyone else talks about- i just had my stomach ache which is such an annoying pain- Very uncomfortable, its almost like you are hungry all the time.
so you wanna eat something, but even if you eat something, you arent sartisfield of happy, you still have that uncomfortable feeling inside... so you stop eating, and lay down, then feels a bit better.
I had been checking my weight every day and i had lost 3kg since November 11th. So its about 5 weeks :>
Being healthy doesnt mean lose weight and be skinny- but i really wanna be comfortable about myself, and it feels night to see my belly not sticking out or pants getting a little losse on my thigh!!!
So im hoping i will lose 3 more in a nother 5 weeks-! That would be so so so awesome!
i never thanked this much for "UDON"- which i was sick I couldnt really eat anything BUT Udon....
especially Kitsune Udon (kitsune means FOX but it is really a Fried Tofu with sweet soy sauce taste).
I really hate to be sick ( who doesnt?) Even though I got sick many times and i kow pretty much how to handle when you are sick... but i guess as you get older, thats the worst thing you can get- any virus you get in your body must come out of your body somehow!! So it takes time to release it , so you need good rest and Vitamins, and other nutrients...
OK, enough about medical talk today. Im going to bed! GOOD NIGHT!
I was in bed for more than 3 days, even after i got back to work I was still sick and my body was suffering from pain. it started from noro virus but it wasn't as bad symptoms as everyone else talks about- i just had my stomach ache which is such an annoying pain- Very uncomfortable, its almost like you are hungry all the time.
so you wanna eat something, but even if you eat something, you arent sartisfield of happy, you still have that uncomfortable feeling inside... so you stop eating, and lay down, then feels a bit better.
I had been checking my weight every day and i had lost 3kg since November 11th. So its about 5 weeks :>
Being healthy doesnt mean lose weight and be skinny- but i really wanna be comfortable about myself, and it feels night to see my belly not sticking out or pants getting a little losse on my thigh!!!
So im hoping i will lose 3 more in a nother 5 weeks-! That would be so so so awesome!
i never thanked this much for "UDON"- which i was sick I couldnt really eat anything BUT Udon....
especially Kitsune Udon (kitsune means FOX but it is really a Fried Tofu with sweet soy sauce taste).
I really hate to be sick ( who doesnt?) Even though I got sick many times and i kow pretty much how to handle when you are sick... but i guess as you get older, thats the worst thing you can get- any virus you get in your body must come out of your body somehow!! So it takes time to release it , so you need good rest and Vitamins, and other nutrients...
OK, enough about medical talk today. Im going to bed! GOOD NIGHT!
Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.
おなじ内容の言葉をしゃべっても、その人物の口からでると、
まるで魅力がちがってしまうことがある。
人物であるかないかは、そういうことが尺度なのだ。
translation
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even if spoken the same content, when done so by a particular person
it can mean totally different.
(im sorry for my poor translation, if anyone has any good suggestion, please tell me)
"Be a friend to yourself, and others will be so too."
"i, um, i know it may sound stagey, but all i want to do is drop dead"
by Osamu Dazai- one of the greatest writer in Japan- a "man" shuts himself down when his "work" doesnt go well- but his wife on the other hand can careless about that problem and tells him " you can't die yet, you have your work"... I wonder, if men really feel that desperate when their wives dont even understand what they are going through, or they have given up women dont understand their problems from the first place.
by Osamu Dazai- one of the greatest writer in Japan- a "man" shuts himself down when his "work" doesnt go well- but his wife on the other hand can careless about that problem and tells him " you can't die yet, you have your work"... I wonder, if men really feel that desperate when their wives dont even understand what they are going through, or they have given up women dont understand their problems from the first place.
っというものの、いまの平和な子どもたちにとって
欲求不満っていうものがあるのかな。
欲求が満たされまくってると欲求不満耐力をつける必要がなくなってきそうだけど・・・
人間って不思議で 欲求不満が解決できないときは
心の不安で自我が崩壊するのを防ぐために心理的なはたらきが起こるのだ。
☆ 代償
プールにいけない子どもが 庭で水遊びをする
☆ 補償
運動が苦手な子どもが音楽の才能で周りにほめてもらうこと
☆ 昇華
弟や妹がいない子どもが近所の子を集めて面倒をみて近所の人に感謝される
☆同一視
アニメの主人公を自分の姿に投影して満足感を得る
☆ 合理化
すっぱいぶどう 甘いレモン
手に入らないぶどうは 「そんなぶどう、すっぱいからいらない！」 といい
自分がもっているレモンは 「このレモン甘くておいしいんだよー」という
甘いレモンは存在しないことから無理に価値を高め正当化すること
☆ 投射
実際には自分が相手を嫌っているが 「私はなんとも思ってないけどむこうが私を嫌ってる」と思い込んでいる
☆ 反動形成
他者に対する敵意を抑え 逆に親切にふるまう
☆攻撃
ものをなげたりすること
☆ 退行
赤ちゃんがえり。 だまりこむ、など
☆ 逃避
○実際に現実から逃げる
○別の現実への逃避
○病気への逃避 （実際に病気がないのに症状が現れる場合もある）
○空想への逃避
☆ 知性化
自分の父親を憎んでいるときに それをそのまま話さずに
「私はエディプスコンプレックスがある」というふうに論理を用いること
欲求不満っていうものがあるのかな。
欲求が満たされまくってると欲求不満耐力をつける必要がなくなってきそうだけど・・・
人間って不思議で 欲求不満が解決できないときは
心の不安で自我が崩壊するのを防ぐために心理的なはたらきが起こるのだ。
☆ 代償
プールにいけない子どもが 庭で水遊びをする
☆ 補償
運動が苦手な子どもが音楽の才能で周りにほめてもらうこと
☆ 昇華
弟や妹がいない子どもが近所の子を集めて面倒をみて近所の人に感謝される
☆同一視
アニメの主人公を自分の姿に投影して満足感を得る
☆ 合理化
すっぱいぶどう 甘いレモン
手に入らないぶどうは 「そんなぶどう、すっぱいからいらない！」 といい
自分がもっているレモンは 「このレモン甘くておいしいんだよー」という
甘いレモンは存在しないことから無理に価値を高め正当化すること
☆ 投射
実際には自分が相手を嫌っているが 「私はなんとも思ってないけどむこうが私を嫌ってる」と思い込んでいる
☆ 反動形成
他者に対する敵意を抑え 逆に親切にふるまう
☆攻撃
ものをなげたりすること
☆ 退行
赤ちゃんがえり。 だまりこむ、など
☆ 逃避
○実際に現実から逃げる
○別の現実への逃避
○病気への逃避 （実際に病気がないのに症状が現れる場合もある）
○空想への逃避
☆ 知性化
自分の父親を憎んでいるときに それをそのまま話さずに
「私はエディプスコンプレックスがある」というふうに論理を用いること