Every Friendays, I have a Japanese class to teach.
My student is an adult lady from China married to a man from Pakistan. That status already interested me enough and got curious what kind of person that is. What is she doing in Kobe? What sort of things is she interested in? Are we going to be good friends? Are we going to be able to share our beliefs and exchange opinions even we have such different "ways" of living?
KICC (Kobe International Community Centre) have a free Japanese lesson for foreigners who live in Kobe city for 6 months. This is a contract and even though it is a volunteer, Japanese teachers who are registered there are taking this very seriously and there are many new Japanese learners at so many different levels. Some are just beginners and will start their Hiragana and easy greetings and others will spend this class time talking about politics or business, or even to go over their graduation thesis, in JAPANESE!! Amazing.
So the first meeting was very nice. She looked very calm and peaceful and she was very relieved that I could use English so when she doesnt understand, I could help her out. We decided how we wanted to do this class, and agreed on "No textbook". She actually had studied her textbook but she had forgotten almost everything so she wanted to keep up with her everyday conversation skills.Well, i thought then it is better to "practice" than "learn" so i asked to
1.Come up with a question for me.
2.Write a short diary of what she has done that day or the week.
3.Review what we studied in class.
Thats all- and i used picture cards and picture dictionaries that KICC has. It is much more useful to use these materials than all "written" sentences with no illustration, it bores me out, and it bores me out so badly that i almost hate to teach.....
So this idea worked very well. and we are using "絵で見る日本語” picture dictionary in Japanese and the last lesson we did the page onはなしあう、 やくそくする。 and there are several senteances like やくそくどおり、のこさずたべる。
As we promised, he finished his plate.
so when we talk that in english it is so different so when we learn the language, it is so importatnt to THINK in that language as well, if we translate everytime, it takes time, and its waste of time.... so she really like my class so far and i love my student so far. We both love cooking. so we never run out of cooking topic. She wanted to know how to cook さといも、so i gave her the idea on 煮付け。 煮付け is a very common japanese dishes and you can almost 煮付け everything/ fish, vegis, meat, and she tried it and actually brought the potatos then after a lesson, i was off so she invited me to go to her friend's house with her.
At first i thought it was really nice and a very "foregin" way because a Japanese person would never ask to go with them to a friend's house without asking that friend first for a permisssion but i could tell she and this friend are very close and welcome new friends so of course i said "YES, i would LOVE to" so we walked and walked then went to se a new friend.
it was a family from Pakistan, and i met a lady and her three children. The youngest was just 2 months old and he was soooooooooooo adorable. A three year old girl, she was the most beautiful girl i had every seen in my life. She had such a beautiful eyes and curious look on her face "who is this new person who has been looking at me and smiling so big" i often told her "come here and play with me! do you wanna show me your toys?" and her mom was very happy that i liked kids and i was friendly with her. When i got invited in, i sat at the table and just relax, and the ladies started cooking in the kitchen. I was very comfortable. In Japanese houses, normally when you go in, you are to sit and pick what i wanna drink and just do nothing, but I also went into the kitchen and just had a casual conversation like we were friends from before. I felt so right and comfortable with them somehow even i dont know them and i just met them. It was a Japanese kitchen but it smelled different since there were different kind of spices and they were cooking Chapati, which is bit like Soft Taco shell, and just fell in love with this taste. and i ate and ate. This was the good thing about them too, because they offered me food and told me to eat a lot, and i took their words, and i didnt have to worry that I was eating too much or something like that, like i worry a lot at Japanese friends house. We talked a lot about education, and also told each other about ourselves, where they shop for gloceries, and all that. She also asked me what do I think of drinking the tap water after the Tsunami because of the radiation stuff, and I told her im not so sure since i have filter and its no problem but i would be extra careful with an infant, i mean its never too much to be careful^^
And after sometime, the three year old girl got used to me and she started to play with me. We played some lego, and i held a two month old baby and really felt "Oh my gosh, how would someone hurt this precious thing, i cannot believe the abusing/ Im holding a human being, and i would do anything, everything to protect him. love him. and care for him"
i could feel that to a friend's baby, and im sure I will be so spoiled to my own. hahaha!! but the three year old big sister, is not big enoigh, she came to me and wanted to cuddle. I felt it was so sweet and i cuddled her and sang to her. "You are the cutest girl ive ever seen, and you are the sweetest ive ever known, your eyes are so beautiful and i fell in love with them. you are the center of the world and only one...." and she was soooooooooo cuddly and i kind of senced that she was jelous, everyone is so cuddly and huggy with the baby but not a "big sister" and it makes her sad sometimes. I am an only child so i had never felt this way but as I have been teaching for years, now I know that the kids feel this way.
So we had a good bonding time, then now she didnt want me to go. I told her "i will come back and play with you more next time. So we became good friends today, right?" and she said "No"
I dont know how much she understood since she speaks her native language at home with her parents- but we actually didnt need words, i could understand kids, and kids understand me.... it was so sweet. She even told that she was coming with me!! haha.
Well after unexpected food and god conversation, we left her house and stopped by at the small foregin food store where you can buy different spices and veges. In front of that store there is a Muslim Musk where my friends visit often. I had never seen that or maybe didnt pay attention before.
So last Friday was such a worthwhile for me, people who have different believes and background cam come together and sit at the same table to eat same food. I know its not that simple- but even for a shor time, it was a Shrink of "world peace". To understand them, by listening to them, look in their eyes when you talk to them, share your ideas without being scared of judgments. they live their life in their own way with respects and they find happiness in that. I get curious to their life and have a peek, ask them questions and enjoy the conversation. When people are ignorant, they go ahead and judge people without knowing the truth, or even without trying to know the truth. Thats wrong. It doesnt mean we have to think the same way. I can respect their lifestyle. I dont have to copy it. I dont have to judge it. Just KNOW that there are this type of lifestyle.
I hope my friendship will last forever and more and more people will be friends no matter what situation. everyone wants to be happy, that is to all religion, all races, all spieces I think.
I learn so much by teaching. and this time, its not only by teaching children. I teach Japanese to an adult, that means I am kind of representing Japan. but i hope she will learn "me" through a "maybe Japanese" glass. Someday I want to invite them to my home. That would be so nice.
新聞より★とってもいい記事が載っていたので紹介します★後ほど英語ものせます。
「対話は貴重な貴気づきの機会」
普段の生活で使って欲しい言葉
OOしてくれて助かったよ
子供は自分でやればできるのだという自信をつける
勉強しない子だったら、勉強以外のところをたくさん褒めてあげること♪
「ママ、嬉しいよ。(先生 うれしいよ)」
自分の感情を出すのが恥ずかしいのか素直に子供に感情を伝えることが
意外と少ないのです。 いいかわるいかとかの評価じゃなく 親が喜ぶ姿をこどもにいっぱい見せてあげてください。
「あなたはどう思う?」
何かのニュースをきっかけにして意見を聞いてみる
子供の言葉をより多く引き出す会話が大事です。
自分の考えをまとめて人に伝える習慣をつけることが学力向上につながります。
子供の欠点は無理に直そうとしないで
人間には必ずいいところも悪いところもある。無理にそれをなくそうとするといいrところまでなくしてしまうこともある。後から考えれば、あのときなんであんなことでいいすぎてしまったのだろう。と思うかもしれない。少々の欠点には目をつぶる。これが1番役にたつかもしれませんよ★
BY
教育コーチ 江藤まきさん 「子供が勉強好きになる50の言葉」著者
<strong>I went to a speech done by Naoki Ogi. He is an education commentator as well as a professor at several universities.
He appeared on TV and recetnly there isnt a sigle day that we dont see him on TV. However his appearnce didnt start just these days, he was already on TV 10 years ago, said in his speech.</strong>
"I hate it when people say [Try not to make trouble for anyone in your life.] How can you live alone? How can you stay peace without helping troubled people?"
After he said that, I was crying. I was surprised myself because I really didn' expect myself to cry at his speech. Especially if you know his charactor on TV he is know as ”Gay" charactor (but he is dressed fully as a man and he is married to a woman^^ just the way he talks and the hand gestures are "cute" and thats how he got popular on TV, good for him)
Maybe I cried because sometimes I feel like I'm making trouble for people and just cant help it but i am fortunate to have kind and caring friends, bosses, families and co workers around me that it isnt a big deal. and also, when i teach, there is always someone who disturbs my class. Never listens or sits nicely, plus does everything the oppesite. I recalled that student and felt bad because I always felt in my mind "Don't make trouble for other people!" but really, Dr. Ogi says, "it is okay to have ALL KINDS OF people." and i thought, "wow, this person is a cut above... a lot of educators i have known"
He also introduced an episode on Japan's womens soccer coach who was coaching Sawa, she is also on TV all the time now. He said that Sawa was really bad at Rhythem, no sence of it at all. Being a soccer player, if you dont have a sence of rythem, thats fatel.Then, how did she get that good?
Its the coach. He used the method called Potato Vine Method. Normal coach, teacher, or parent... would point out something bad or could be better or bothing an individual to work harder so it will get better. On the other hand, he always gave compliment on what Sawa did great and continued giving praise, never mentioned what she needed to work on. because this potato vine method is based on an idea "if a person realize what she is good at, then she will want to make more accomplishment. So she will find out what she needs to work on and that also improves itself."
I was shocked!!!! for all this time i have been mentioning to everyone in my class "You need to work on your reading but your writing is excellent." or something like that but i guess I really didnt need to say the first part.
TO BE CONTINIED
簡単にまとめてみた★ 日本語です★
「人に迷惑をかけるな」っていう言葉が一番嫌いだ。と彼は言った。
人に迷惑をかけずに生きることなんてできない。
支えあって生きる、これがイイ。
私が涙したのはこの言葉だった。
なぜなら、自分が教えている色々な子どもたちの中に
「クラスの調和を乱す子」がいれば
それは「学ぼうとしているほかの子に迷惑がかかる」って思ってたから。
素晴らしいリーダー、先生ならクラス全体でどうすればみんながHappyに過ごせるかを考えられる、らしいのだ。
尾木先生は、なでしこJAPANのさわ選手のリズム感のなさをいきなり話し出した。サッカー選手にとってリズム感がないことは致命的。でも彼女がなぜトップの素晴らしい選手になったか。それは素晴らしいコーチのおかげ。
彼のやり方は。
その、さわ選手のコーチは
弱点を指摘する代わりに
いいところを、伸ばす 教育を徹底していたらしい。
こういうのを いもづる式 というらしいです。
悪いところを指摘しないままいいところを伸ばすと、自然と悪いところも
伸びてくるというやり方。
ある試合の日選手2人が遅れてきて、コーチはその2人以外の選手に
「なぜ2人がいないことがわかっているのに平気で集まるんだ。チームだろう。みんなで集合して初めてチームだ。見捨ているのと一緒だ。」
と注意したらしい!
「わかってるけどできない」 先生、親、コーチが多いんじゃないかなぁ。
彼がemphasizeしてたのは なんと生後直後に戻り
「カンガルーケア」 だった。
お母さんが赤ちゃんを産んだ後すぐにお腹(胸)の上に赤ちゃんを乗せて
心臓の音をきかせてしばらくぼーっとする、あれ。
外に出てきた瞬間、赤ちゃんは怖くって怖くって「ここはどこ?こわい!襲われる!」みたいな不安を感じるらしいの。
だから、お腹の中で聴いてたお母さんの心音を聞くことで
「安心してもいいんだ。」 って思えるんだって。
そこから、2歳になっても10歳になっても16歳になっても
その時の事を忘れないで「このコを守る。このコを愛する。認めてあげる」って思い出してお母さんは接しましょう。って言うんだ。
それがあると子供と親との「基本的信頼」が形成される。
世の中にTrustできる人がいる、という安心感で自分の自信とかにつながっていく。
最後に、学力について。
今の若い世代は メールだと気持ちを伝えるのがとって上手。
だけど実際にあって話してみたりすると全然話が通じなかったりするらしい。
これからのグローバスの時代で生きていくには
自分の意見をもってそれを相手に伝えていく能力を養わなければいけない。
それは自分勝手に人の意見を無視するのとは違う。
本当に学力が高いとは、「全国一斉小学生テスト」の結果でもなく「高校生クイズ」で「宇宙のなんちゃらかんちゃらの距離」を30秒で計算しだす秀才高校生とも違う、と彼は言った。
それは、「洞察力」 のことをさす と。
周りを見て、周りと話して
コミュニケーションをとりながら頭を使える人。
I totally agree!
勉強を頑張るのは 洞察力 をきたえる訓練なんだなと
改めてわかった気がする。
バラエティー番組では伝えにくいこと編集もうそもあるんだろうけど
彼を知るきっかけになったバラエティー番組には感謝。
Eye opening experienceって英語では言うけど
本当にそんなかんじ。
ぱって目が覚めて、 wow
って感じた瞬間が何度もの公演中にあって
「いろんな種類の人間がいてこそいいんです」 の言葉、感動しました!
インターナショナルな環境で教えてると それをわかってるはずなのに
みかけや行動の違いをみとめてはいても
なかなか「できないこと」にはイライラしてしまうこともある。
それはまだまだ私の力不足だとはっきりわかった。
また講演があったら是非行きたい!
I meant to update my second day of islaand of summercamp sooner, but adter the test I got busy with work, then soon we had our school Day trip and so on, and i just got tiedup...
so anyways, to write up the overview of summercamp to awaji... i thought of coming up with "ranking" so here it is...
"TOP 5 Awaji Summercamp surprises"
1."getting lost" in a dark! It was part of our plan to go and find "umi hotaru" which are lighting bugs? those are the bugs glow in dark, and they like fish sausages so we had this jar with the fish sausage tied with string- and supposely hoping to see many bugs glow in dark.... until we realized most of our flashlights died and didnt really see clearly so we totally got lost then since we (teachers) live in cities we didnt notice the counryside get no lights and it is pretty easy to get loooooooost! well, we did get some... but it was a little sad to see kids sad faces... but the teacher was even more upset, and sweaty, and.... exausted! haha
2. Amazing! 5 yr old boy, used to be "little baba"a year ago, didnt cry, wedge, wine, or ask us to pick him up or huggy during the whole camp. He is the little one in our group and normally gets away with his "cute" way and cuddle... but at the camp we are all busy, and focusing on getting to places on time and figuring out what to do next, then believe ornot he got so independent, at eating time, sleeping, carring bags, he was one independent little man and i was so surprised and proud! when kids got no choice but to take care of themselves, they do!
3.Morning and Evening Meetings at the Youth Cultural center where we stayed, we had to choose one child from our group to come up to the front and talk in public about our day and greeting, we absolutely had no idea so we as teachers felt a little too bad not to be able to mention it-noone wanted to go to the front but then we had one brave 5th grade boy volunteer and did a great speech just like a grown up businessman in a presentation!
4.In the "Youth cultural center" there were so many rules, it was the part of "learning" as a group and teamwork- yet one that annoyed me the most was that in the morning before leaving the building, few had to go back to the floor that we were staying in and just be there while the "checkers" check all of the lists such as "there is no dust or garbage on the floor" or "windows are all shut" then if there is anything that needs to be redone, they had to, of course... yeah, i did check, double check everyone's room- but still, they had to redo it!
5.Nice "indigo dying" t shirt project! i really wish i brout a t shirt with me because all of he kids t shirt turned out so nice!
i have many more, but i will stop right here!!
anyways i think you all got the idea, this camp was a good one and i enjoyed it very much!
awaji island 淡路島 youth cultural exchange house 青少年交流の家
私はプリスクールで日本語のクラス(30分)を教えている。
基本的に、ひらがなの読み書きから始まり、かるたやひらがなサイコロで読みの練習などをして★
そのほかは、絵本や遊び歌でボキャブラリーを増やしていく♪
最初はSLOWに始まったこのクラス今はなかなか楽しくって 子どもたちも上達が見られてきてる♪
最近のブームはやっぱりひらがなかるた、あひるのあ!いすのい!といいながらとっていくとっても楽しいゲーム♪
傑作だったのがOちゃんがきつねのき! のときに きつねのこ!と言ったこと。
きつねの子!? 笑
Im teaching Japanese Hiragana class (30min) every Monday at a preschool Im working, it started really slow in April but now its getting more and more fun, and we love theKarutra game where we have to shout out "Ahiru no A!" or
"kaeru no ka!" and so on. O chan, he once said "kitsune no ko!" instaed of "kitsune no KI!" because you are supposed to say the first letter of the hiragana but he said it like "baby fox" きつねのこ。 こ=子 hahahah
sosooooooo cute!!!
I love teaching japanese to little kids as well as English. Its really fun but it is definitly different from teaching my second language, sometimes its really hard but with kids its always fun!
the song is pretty nice too, i introduced "yaoya san" which means vegitable shop, and "hajimaruyo" means "lets start" both songs can teach us numbers, animals and vegitables!!! its very educational but fun !!