The day before yesterday, because of the traffic light, we were blocked in front of it.
This traffic light normally run long time, usually we would be anxious.
My kid suddenly sit on a traffic block, and told me a story that he watch from a cartoon. Even he couldnot understand all the mardine, but he can retell the most and long, I feel happily that this is a great step for him.
At last, when the traffic light turn, I had to stop his story.
(Maybe this is a foolish decision for me.)
Nothing is better than get the trust from others. Special your friend.
I mailed something to my friend in Japan. Really, I spent a lot of time to pack in order to reduce the damage on the way, solid the box 1time, & 1time.....
At last, I got the return, she said my package was very excellent, nothing was damage. Great, thank you. Nothing is better than get the prize from your friend.
This evening, my baby said a sentence when he was sleeping, that is "Donot wash the hands".
This sentence, recently, he would like to said when we wash his hands, "Donot wash the hands", "Donot wash left(right) hand", or"Donot wash hand inside", or "Donot wash the foot"...... or other "Donot do something......"Now I really understand what the truth it is. Before that, I think, that is a joke. But now, I really understand what the books told, "Babies have their own thought & want to show them, & insist it, that is the 1st turnover(rebellious phase) period of the child during 3-6years old."
To write these for those who have babies' problems as mine.
Sometimes I hardly dare to open my blog's website, because I couldnot write. I know I must insist on doning it. But as you know, caring a baby you have spent almost all your spare time. Last week, when I go to swim with our baby, another copys who has a 4-months-old baby said, "Aha, now you must have relaxed a lot, with your baby's walking ability's growing." I have to do a forced smile, "With a baby's different growing period, you know, you have to have some different caring ways and worries."
A Chinese proverb, "養兒一百歲，常憂九十九". This means, if you raise your kid even till he is 100-years-old, in his all life, being parents, you would caring and worrying him almost 99 years. That is it.
Recently, our baby has a lot of new record that prove his growing.
As you know, having a baby would bring you a lot of fun, and you could feel you blood's running in the future, ... but at the same time, you must do a lot, a lot ... In order to make him grow up more healthier, you must play with him; you must take more energy to notise his action; you have to say or explain a lot of words for what is this, and why it did, why you couldnot do it ...
And as you know, baby has a lot of power that seems endless. After you have just sloved a problem, he would bring a new problem. Recycle and recycle ... When you are just complaining his loving-sleep when everytime we brought him to some party, banquet, or meeting; he could suddenly occupy this, and become go to bed more and more difficultly; when you are just complaining why he didnot begin to creep, he could suddenly creep; when you are just complaining if he could walk smoothly, he could suddenly get rid of creeping and begin to walk; when you are just complaining why he couldnot speak, he could suddenly sound "BaBa, BaBa", "MaMa, MaMa", "Maa, Maa(grandmother)";when you are just complaining whether he could understand what we said, he could suddenly show his strong abilities- understanding a lot of sentences and words that we communciate with him; when you are just complaining why he still couldnot control his peep, he could suddenly show his strong peep's controling ability ... Normally, we satiscify our baby's showing in front of us.
But as you know, every victory in the baby, new challenge has come. After tasting every sweet from you baby, you would scare a new darkside's coming. For example, with his IQ's developing, you would begin to enjoy his parent-child interactive with you- he could understand a lot of your meanings, play with you, even make a joke with you,.. but at the same time, he would show a lot of different suggestion when you order him( because he still couldnot say more.), he would cry, twist his body...When I didnot have a baby, I hate this kind of action and this kind of baby, I think that shows this baby get less teaching from their parents. But now ... I have to look for a way. Today, I go to ask a doctor, she said, 1stly, you should seperate this action, if it is right, you could support; otherwise, you couldnot support. Or, those smart baby would understand and catch the weak that you showed at this time, and they would repeat it at next time, them you couldnot control them in the future. 2ndly, even if they have the right order, you should make a deal with them, but everytime you couldnot break the deal. For example, your kid want to watch cartoon, you could make a deal with him-after you finish all your homework, you could do it. When your kid finish all his task ASAP, and you slowly want him even spend more 5 minutes a day even to go over an English word, you couldnot do this, because there is a deal. 3rdly, to give more encourage for you kid, even if he got a very tiny step. For example, his test wasnot good-just 80, you may encourage him, give him a very little target-81, then he would feel less pressure and work more hard to approah this. Many many times, he would get more progress than yours. As the same, you should pay more patience for his back as adult often tolerate yourself when you face in life ...
Baby is a treasure. How to dig, that is decided by you.
After having a baby, that means that you have to lost almost your spare time, your hobby or your past life. Your have to devote to a new job, that is how to make your baby grow up healthly and
intelligently. I have a lot of hobbies, for example: repair something. But now I almost couldnot catch enough time to do it, as you know, when you are trying to check a problem and fix it, you
would spend a lot of time, after you had found where is the point, you have to do it step and step, this also waste a lot of time, but the biggest problem is you have to open your repairing object
in a quite big place and keep them at there for some days, and you have to watch the baby's moving, keep him out of touching. Afterall, you have to change yourself's life. Otherway, we could say, you have to follow and round your baby's life.
I have stopped to writing for some days. There are some reasons, but they maybe not reasons. Today I order my brain to write again, the new reason is I couldnot make my readers down.
I couldnot say I donot like to write, but my time isnot enough during this period. My uncle has completed his surgery. Several tumors were found in his large intestine, and the link between stomach and small intestine had found some ulcer, too. Some postoperative intestinal adhesion part were still there. The luck is that he has done the surgery, the dislucky is his has been made a lot of cutting parts(9? or over?), new 's coming chances are as growing as cuttings. But what could we say? Believe these treatments or not? We donot another selection. When a patient has faced a lot of pains and slowly vanished the fighting power in the heart, he would just looking for a way to get away, that is it. Donot need to say which is better, best way is just quickly to die, that is the way to escape that he think!! That is it...
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Talking about our baby. Recently, he has got a lot of progresses.
1st, on last Wednesday(2012-04-18), I found that he could understand those light objects couldnot make big sounds and when he throw them on the ground, he donot scare and close the eyes again. (he is very likely to throw objects on the ground, and befote that every time when he throw, he would close his eys shortly.)
2nd, on last Friday(2012-04-20)evening, he sounded "e, e", then pointed to the clock with digital; then sounded "e, e", and pointed to the clock with needle. I thought he wanted to ask me why this is a clock(we just told him a clock before), and that is too. Then, I had to explain it to: this is a digital clock, that is a needle clock.
3rd, since last week, when I went out with him together, he would lead me to some places that my mother lead him and maybe he think there are funny.
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So late today, Riko ask me to go to bed. aha, I just write these till now, tomorrow I will continue.
Till today, I still remember that day-the 9th Dec, 2011, our baby began to have his 1st tooth. That day, riko said, when she use spoon to give him food, she heard some light Ding-Ding sound.
She looked at his mouth carefully, a tiny white point has come out from his gum, like a small bean spout... All of us were very joyful.
But in the coming next month, he just has this single teeth, so we called it "the only child(独生子女)".
With the time passing, he has 4 teeth now. 2 are up, and 2 are low, in front of his mouth.
Our baby has begun to use cry to ask to satisify his order .
Till recent days, our baby began to cry(whining) when we couldnot satisify his request. Then we have to pay a lot of patience to explain why his order was refused. Riko said, he is cute before, but now he is made us feel noisy.
Now our baby could walk and almost run(walk quickly). Since last Thursday night, he got a fever. From 37.6, to 38.5, 38.6, till 39.6. On Friday, he has still got 39.5 degree. We use a lot way to make his temperature down, use water to wash his forehead, be wet his head , buy traditional way--cupping(拔火罐), no useful. In the afternoon of Thursday, we took him to see the doctor. But at 原：东山区人民医院, in its pharmacy, they even donot have that fever drug for baby. We have to buy it on a phramacy. Would this is funny? Till Saturday, his fever has been almost drive off.
Today, we went to Jusco. He showed his interesing for those that are full of beautiful things in his eyes, he went to touch this and touch that... When we left and want to pack what we bought in bags, he brought a pack box of tofu
（豆腐）and throwed on the ground, played as what he used to do for his toys at home, certainly, the result was tofu splited and rushed on the ground...
You know, baby, the price of goods are really higher than before, for example, a box of 946mm milk is from 10.4 yuan to 13.5. Do you know?
Today, our baby has stepped in 1-year-old(lunar year旧暦)
It is too fast, even we couldnot look back. Maybe we see him everyday, and couldnot focuse on his change. In the past year, we just know that he has been about 8kilograms and 74cms long.
Today, we celebrated his birthday for him. I said, maybe at his the 90th birthday celebration, we couldnot appear again. I wish he could look this the 1st birthday photos when he has growed up. And he has more sweet feeling when he read them.
Happy birthday, our baby!
Today, the temperature climb to 24again. These days has since Sunday, I said that we totally live in "Turkish Bath - Room", because it will down again since the day after tomorrow(Thursday). Till Friday, it will be about 6-15degree. Cold will come again.
Our baby since last week (about on 29th, Nov), he like to turn over to sleep.(lie prone) Even you make him lie normally, he would sleep like a cat. I donot know why?
Riko said, "Now he could normally cut off mother's milk easily, for mother's milk couldnot support to sleep or calm. Now, its function is just to support his health. That is it." "In the past, after he has drunk a lot of mother's milk, he could easily sleep in mother's chest, but now he would turn over to sleep after leaving mother's chest by himselves power. That is different."
About several weeks ago, after our baby could walk, we try to let him wear shoes. But after that, he seems couldnot know how to walk. Today(2011-11-21), I tryed to give him shoes, and stayed away 2meters, then shook hands with him. He could begin to walk, but he seemed as someone who are walking in the mug, foot was lift quite high.
I will record his bungle tomorrow.
3 days ago(2011-11-13), our baby sound a new sound-DA, DA(だ、だ). Since, he began to sound a new sound-BUDA, BUDA(ぶだ). But he still didnot say any significant word or sentence. Since 2011-11-11, I had found him could really understand to say Good-bye to others. When we say, "Say byebye to **" , then he could shake all his hands to that one(maybe this is a funnist way to say goodbye).
Recently, changing clothing and diaper is a really difficult thing. He would use all his ways to get rid of your controll.
Tomorrow is another day.
Tomorrow(2011-11-14), Riko will go back her working place. After her borning, she has leaven her working place about 10.5 months long. Her working place allows women who born baby could enjoy 1year long's breasting baby holiday. But in this year, after every women have a rest over those formal resting-days that are forced by government and the over-part are no longer than 6months, their every month's income would be cut about 30%. And if their unformal resting days are over 6months, they would lose the double-prize in the end of a year. And every worker who are absent over 15days whatever reasons are would be cut 30% income of this month.
After thinking, so we decide to rest before the deadline of 6months(out of formal-days) and just let us lose every month's 30%. The last caculation result is tomorrow is the best.
After leaving so long, Riko said that she didont know whether she could work or not. I smiled and said that this was a anxious show as we went back to school after a long vocation
With Riko's going, our baby have to face a new problem, that is he couldnot see her mother some hours in a day(although Riko said she would come home in the noon, in order to breast him and make him feel more comfortable). But this is still a big problem that is put in front of everyone who stays in home. I really wish our baby could be over this new mountain in front of him.
Go, go, our brave baby!
Today, Our baby's thinking ability is improving.
This afternoon, I took him to my massage's teacher's house. When he saw the dog(about 1metre long, 4-years-old), he has seen that dog the 4th time. But he still cried(crying with tears) again, but his fearlessness time came earlier and his curiosity for it has become more thicker than before.
He like to push some plastic chair on the ground recently since we took him to Riko's mother's house on the 4th last month(October, 2011). Today, when he pushed the chair to a block in front of a door, he could stop and go to the otherside, turn around and push that chair to escape the block on the converse side... Haha...
The other thing makes me be unhappy.
That is last midnight, our grandfather feel not good in the nurse room and my aunt dialed a call to us. This morning, my mother rushed to hometown again. This morning, they have a decision, donot take him to the hospital, let him peacefully enjoy maybe his last happy life. I feel very unhappy!!
Recently, our baby's walking ability is improving very quickly. He can almost walk quite smoothlly, no object by relying on. Several days ago(about 7days,Oct-31-2011), he even want to walked more quickly by short frequency steps.
About 2days ago(Nov-4-2011), he seems to understand to shake his small hands to say "Good-bye" to those who say "Goodbye" and shake hands with him as them.
Since yesterday(Nov-5-2011), I found him could understand befote I take off the bus and say"Let's take off the bus". When I told this to Riko, she said, “He has understood more early, just you donot keep an eye on him.”
Today is my grandfather's birthday, we celebrated it with him in the noon. Because of illness' torment, he is weaker and slimer a lot than the 1st, May. I didnot like to mark down this scene, so I gave up my original decision. He sit on a wheelchair and cut the cake in the restaurant with us.
Long life! I wish, I really wish.
In this evening, our cousin came back to see his mother who is in the hospital now. He invite to have dinner. He told us, according to his birthday, he will retire at 68years and 10months that time, and the deadline is as same as women. We couldnot close our open mouths. How serious the rule is!
Now, in our area, men are 60; normal women are 50, those who have some powers could be order at 55. At this field, I think we are lucky.
