Our baby's record(0005)-At the 1st 3 months, babies are living in their own world.

Till tomorrow, our baby will come to the world 3 months long. But he almost still donot know how to understand other's call and almost wouldnot show his reflection. He coulld smile, cry and looking at something for quite long(At one night, he stared at a warm light bulb for almost 40 minutes and didnot change it.)...

I ask it for a doctor. She said,"At the 1st 3 months, babies are living in their own world.""They have themselves world. What they are thinking, what they are smiling,  ...all are in their closed-world."

I guess, their sense abilies are growing up.

Have a baby is not an easy thing, and how to make him grown up normally is another big problem. Sometimes I try to make me calm down from baby's everyday's housework.

Our baby's record(0004)-Learning something about baby's psychology.

Why are the babies liked shaking softly or petting tenderly by us?

I asked this for a doctor. She said, "Because when babies grown in mother's uterus, they would be surrounded, holded and protected by amniotic fluid. They like this feeling when they come to the world. After they came out from mother's body, if they get these kinds of shaking again. They would get a strong warm remember and  strong safety. In order to make your baby healthyly, you should know something about baby's psychology."

Good idea. Baby is growing up. He wouldnot just be satisified with food and sleep. Knowing something about it would be really a good way to understand them and get to know how to teach them in their future.

Our baby's record(0003)-Tip for helping sleeping.

Every new borned kid would spend a quite long time on sleeping. It is said that about 20 hours a day. It is the guarantee to give him(her) a healthy body.

But not all babies would like to sleep always. Although our baby belong to this group, I have some good ways to share with you for making your baby to sleep.

1. When baby donot like to sleep, you may pat the bums.

2. When baby donot like to sleep, you may hold the baby to walk outside. In my experience, just after 15 minutes, he would fall in sleep. If you just hold and walk inside, in my experience, you would spend almost 1 hour(about 50 minutes) to let him(her) to sleep.

3. When baby donot like to sleep, you may hold him to take the bus. That is a very good and easy way to make him sleep, but sometimes it maybe not so easy to do it.

4. When baby donot like to sleep, you make put your baby on you lap, then shaking him softly. In my experience, sometimes it works, but sometimes it doesnot.

5. When baby donot like to sleep, you may try to eye-contact with your baby, or say something, or sing some songs to your baby. As above, sometimes it works, but sometimes it doesnot.

I think these 5 ways are OK. If you have some interest, you could keep them and try. Good luck!

 

Our baby's record(0002)-Tip for red bums.

I think all parents would be faceing baby's red bums' problem. Here, I like to share 1 traditional method to cure and erase it.

"To use overnight tea. " That means you should use the tea-leaves to stay in the pot, then wait and use them to make tea till over more than 1 night and use these tea-water to clean baby's red bums. After you use it 1-2 days, you would see the effect.

When our baby was very young, his skin was very tender. After changing several days dapers, he always cried. We donot know why. Several days later, our parents found this problem-his bums are very red.  Then they taught us this way to slove it. It did work!

Certainly, we would use some medicine cream(名前：嬰和膏, a quite unexpensive and execllent effect cream) and medicine powder(名前：六一散, a quite unexpensive and execllent effect medicine powder), they also show quite good effect.

Our baby's record(0001)-Our baby's the 1st time.

Our baby's 1st swim: 2nd Jan, 2011.

  Now, he has swum 9 times.　From the 1st time, he cried till no sound,(At the 2nd time, he showed crying just during half time. The 3rd time, he just showed a little fearness in the begining.)Till the 4th time he showed totally no fearness and no crying. Since the 8th time, he showed not to leave the water when we lift him from the pool. Then, when we wash him in the big basin, his legs would like to moving as showing in the pool, quite funny.

My baby's 1st went back to hospital: 7th Jan, 2011.

  Mainly to check for his health as a new-born child and his mother's health as a new-born mother.

Our baby's 1st went back to anther hospital:21th Jan, 2011.(Check the right eye, because that eye was infected by one kind of bacteria-since his came out from her mother, I guess that he got it in his mother.)

  Then he went to his borned hospital to cure for it 3 times.

Our baby's 1st definite sound:1st, Mar, 2011.

  His 1st crying definite sound is: crying sound-heyaheya(へや、へや)。His 1st definite sound is: e,e(え、え)。Now his crying sound is:eya-eya(えや、えや)。

Our baby's 1st taste his finger: 6th, Mar, 2011.

  Now he just could taste the middle of the 1st and the 2nd fingers' crossing position. But he could make the sound quite louder-ZUZU(ずず)。

Our baby's 1st went to see the doctor because of cough(no fever):12th, Mar, 2011.

  He went to see the doctor totally 3 times-10th, Feb;14th, Feb; 21th, Feb. Although the doctor's prescription was just 3 medicine, (and all had sweet taste), he cryed. So I felt, feeding medicine to a baby is a very difficult. (For I would spend almost 20-30 minutes every time.)

Our baby's 1st successfully turn over: 20th, Mar, 2011.(But till now)

  But the eye-witness, Riko said, "He use some skill, that is-2 hands moved to nearby the mouth, then do his best, and success. ", "After he have done it 2-3 times, he has tire enough to do it again."   Because the left eye is showing the similar symptoms as the right eye. I donot know why the eyes would be influenced by these... How I wish he wouldnot need to got these pain. These several days, when we held him, when his face got a chance to facing our chest, he turned around and shook his face on our clothing, even he couldnot touch it, he would shake and shake. We have no experience. We just thought he was just for showing his friendly for his dear ones. Now we have to guess, his eye is very uncomfortable at that time. Last evening, we found his left eye is quite serious-full drops and unclean drops. So, we decided to take him to see the doctor tomorrow.

Our baby's 1st went back to hospital to check for the left eye: planing 

Our baby's the highest record as changing diaper in one night:10 diapers（おむつ）.

  Now, this wouldnot happen again, because some of our friends give us paper-diaper. They could help to reduce our parents' cold feeling when they are washing the diapers(おむつ), and reduce our jobs. Since his born, he has used (for NB)1 pack of 75 brand: huggies（ハギーズ 新生児用）, (for NB)1 pack of 90 brand: pampers（パンパース　新生児用）, (for NB)1 pack of 48 brand: pampers（パンパース　新生児用）, (for NB & S)1 pack of 76+8 brand: pampers（パンパース　新生児用＆Sサイズ）, (for S)1 pack of 74 brand: pampers（パンパース　Sサイズ）.Since 15th, Mar, we began to use S size. Now, he would almost have the bowl movement after finishing to drink the milk.

Thinking because of on the bus(2).

I met another thing in bus today. When we were on the way to hospital this afternoon, on the half way, a black took in. When he was on, he talked something to the bus driver. Although we were siting closly the driver, with the black's nonstand accent English, we couldnot listen clearly what did he said. Then he sat beside Riko.

When passing railway station, he asked the driver to open the door and let him be down. The driver shoke his hand and say no. He asked again several times. The driver shoke the hand several times. He asked a girl who seems to be an OL something. But the girl say - ''I donot know English.''Then I told him(the black), ''The bus donot stop at here.''The black complained, ''When I took in and ask him, he said yes!''I told the driver. The driver said,''If I know a lot of English, I wouldnot be a driver so hardly, and I could stay in the office and enjoy the comfortable.''Reality, this is true. English is not our local English. Many people couldnot do a lot for it too. And the ability of mastering a language needs someone spend a lot a lot time. But at the same time, you couldnot say being a driver would be an easier thing than mastering a language. Mastering every job, every skill in the world, is not an easy thing. There are no difference with, all need to work hard. The difference is just how much do you like it or not then how much you spend on it. Just it!

I translated this to the black. But the black was still angry and say''I have asked him when I took in, he said yes, yes. ''he repeated this several times. I told him ''The driver donot know a lot English. He node to you and just show his pilot. The next stop is about 500 metres(but I said 2 times -5 metres away, the third time I corrected it as 500 metres. How big is my mistake!) away, you could turn back.''He said'''The time has crossed.''When he was down, he used our local language and said ''trouble''. Maybe this was just a serious way to show his angry. Maybe he wanted to show this as English dirty words? I thinked.

In a different country, some trouble must be happened. It is the natural order. What is your attitude, forgive, understand and angry? It is just decided by yourself. Looking around others happening in our life everyday are the same.

Thinking because of on the bus(1).

Today we went to hospital again. When we came back, we took in No.111 trolley again. There are no so crowded as usual, there are just several people standing. Someone still occupied those seat for oldness, younger, patient, disability, pregnancy, holding baby's and others who need help. As you know, when no one need this, keep these seats empty is foolish, but when you are facing this kind of needing person, the best way I think is go away and pass it to those who need it. But this couldnot be met again today. We stood. At the next stop, 2 persons who located in front of the bus were down. I asked Riko try to get 1. When Riko went to 1 seat nearby, a holding baby woman took in, then Riko left the seat at once and moved back to me. (After we were down this bus at last, she said, "I just want to take, but I saw a holding baby woman, sorry..." I told her, "You are right.")Maybe she couldnot get a seat, 1 boy who is about 28-year-old wearing a overall with a logo nearby Riko, stood up and let us a seat. Although this is a later Spring, it could be acceptable.

I try to make an analogy, you hold a small chinese bottle then throw it on the ground, it is an easy thing. But if you try to collect all broken pieces and stick them to be a bottle. It must be a tough work. Moral's broken is very easy, people would be all keen to unrestricted life, just a short period. But traditional moral's building, it really needs a long, long time.

Fallen angels.

Yesterday it is a very strange day. When I got up, I found all the humid disappearance. In these 2 days, humid weather came again. The ground was wet, so you couldnot mop. The air is full of tiny drops, clothing couldnot be dry...Suddenly, the air turned to be dry, the ground turned to be dry, clothing turned to be dry...The north strong cold current made it. Although I donot like to be cold, my baby need clean clothing and clean ground...

South area is just like this in Spring, every year, natural law!

I like to write something about my baby long, but till today I have the passion to do it.

Remember the passing 81 days, my baby is growing. His facing is changing. Sometimes you should say he is different. When I am touching his pictures, I have some feeling.

Yesterday afternoon, Riko, baby and I went home from hospital and took in a No. 111 trolley. There was a last free seat at the last row. A black was siting nearby. I let Riko sit and let her hold baby, then I stood. At the same time, the black stood up and order me to sit his seat. I tried to refuse, but he insisted. At the last, I sit and he stand. Although we are young too, he is a foreigner. What I could do is remember his face and his wearing- an about 25-year-old young guy, wearing a reb jacket("England" written on it) .

Comparing with other times I took this crowded NO. 111 trolley(Go to that professional for baby, children and women hospital by it.), even if some Chinese facing us, they would just looked out of the window or tried to fall in a fake sleep...and donot want to give the baby a hand.

Nothing, nothing, I just feel sad, I am young enough not to need a seat today. But how about facing some others really need it? A people's moral has lost, angels in someone's deep heart have fallen, ..., when it would come back??

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1 shocking news in our area today.

This morning, after I got up, my mother came back from supermarket and asked me a question, "Do you know what is the hottest news today?"I reply,"Has Japan's nuclear power plant a extreme explosion?""No."I released and asked again,"So, what?""The salt in our local market have been sold out. They were all bought by people.""...?""Those who couldnot buy salt begin to buy soy-bean sauce."

Later, one of my neighbour told me, he has walked to 1 nearby market and proved that this was true again. And he said that he donot want to go to buy it from privat store, "That quality is no guarantee."(Maybe he donot know, even if he go to those places, he couldnot buy even 1 package salt.)

A package of salt(1 package is 500g.)has been sold as 5 yuan RMB. Someone told me that some places couldnot buy even if you pay 10 yuan. The highest record got from Tv is 30 yuan(about 500 円en). Some rich people began to buy salt from Australia, 6 yuan, but smaller package.

In our local friendship store(kuwangchow Friendship Store) allowed each one buy 5 packages salt, till this afternoon it began to limit each one could just 2.

This storm began to land Hongkong. People begin to buy or to hoard salt, soy-bean sauce, rice etc. at their local markets. From this noon Hongkong Tv news said that someone buy salt a truck one by one to Hongkong's boarder and then transpot to inland China. These make the situation begin worse and worse.

Why? I think. As I think before, this has a tying relation with losing government's trust. A lot of rumor will become true at last. So, everyone could just keep a contrary point to understand one government's announcement.(1 TV presenter also express this point in our local Tv.)

Another reason is inflation. Maybe this is people show their fearnese for inflation of present by this fuse. Our inflation make us to bend till our limit!(Similar this has occured in our country in 1988.)

Maybe this would be disappeared soon. But it ask us more to consider with-how to handle the relation with citizen and how to solve the pression brought to citizen by inflation.

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Cherish now, because it is not everyone could have this chance.

Yesterday, temperature suddenly was down 10 degree and with very strong north-wind. Because of this strong cold and strong wind, my plants that are in front of my room were pulled down many times, this made me support them many many times. Last evening, it is a marvellous evening.

Why?

Because we were trapped into very moist day for some days. Spring is coming. Every time after mopping the floor, you have to wait, how long? 5-6 hours. Every morning, you could see plants' leaves edge decorated by shinning water. They stay there until noon and no moving plan.

Last evening, facing are all the cool and cold wind. Sky seems to tear off a ground glass of the window. I could look clearly of many things: buildings, trees, lights, ...even those moving vehicles. I enjoy these.

And, at the same time, I have to thanks for God for my peaceful life of present. But not everyone could enjoy this.

When I work last night, shizuoka（静岡県など）etc. have new earth quakes too. Maybe these would make people more concern too. Today, from Tokyo head office send off a letter to us. And said thanks for those who still work hard at their position, and said because there are earth quakes still, so some working procession maybe not so normal and smooth.

I wish God bless every people, God bless every suffering people, God bless every suffering nation, and God bless Japan! These are what I wish today!

What makes Japanese Citizens show such peacful, orderly in front of the huge disaster?

(At 1:46pm-Japan Time, on March, 11th, 2011, a massive 9.0-magnitude earthquake rocked northeast Japan, we wish those missing could be found quickly and and we morning for those passing away by this sad and painful disaster.)

What makes Japanese Citizens show such peacful, orderly in front of the huge disaster?

This discussion is opening on local TV this evening. There are 3 choices:"Education? System? Others effect others?"

I think they are all right, or not the all. I think mainly it is government to make it.

Because all the citizens believe that their government would have abilities support them and would give them true help and make everything becoming better.

Why after some disaster happened in some developing countries, citizens would rush shops, would rub relief aid materials...because those suffering people couldnot got their wanting and the most fatal point is someone seize their materials by some holding special power persons or organizations. They got unfairness but government couldnot handle it. In every event, it was copied again and again. At last, all these countries citizens just believe if you donot get them by yourself, waiting is wasting.

So, I think, Japanese Citizens could show these in front of the world by media workers from all over the world, the 1st and the most important thing is Citizens believe their government, because their government could do a lot for their citizens, because their government have done a lot make their citizens believable things, because their government could give them fairness step by step. It is, it is their government made it.

Reference materials:

http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2011/03/11/3162153.htm;

http://abcnews.go.com/International/japan-earthquake-death-toll-set-rise-fukushima-nuclear/story?id=13126081

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