1 Chronicles 4:10

1 Chronicles 4:10 And Jabez called on the God of Israel saying, Oh that You would richly bless me and enlarge my border, and that Your hand would be with me, and that You would so keep me from evil that it would not grieve me! And God caused what he had requested to come to pass.

we need to have such a prayer like Jabez, asking the Lord to enlarge our border, which is our enjoyment of the Lord, so that we can gain more of Christ day by day. if we pray such a prayer, God is more than willing and happy to answer our prayer, to cause what we request to come pass.