Why Breakups Matter

There are similarities between failed startups and plane crashes when it comes to breakups. A fantastic future vision did not materialize, much like a failed start-up. Wreckage was left in the wake of the accident, much like in a plane crash.

When a couple splits up, it is for the same reason that failing businesses or airlines are investigated: to prevent it from happening again.

An end to a relationship used to be inconceivable because of the stigma attached to such a traumatic occurrence. Unthinkable events force us to revise our mental models in order to make sense of them.

The Apollonian method of ending relationships. Apollo, the Greek God of Light, Order, and Rationality, was revered by the ancient Greeks. The apollonian method of ending a relationship is to rationalize it. If you try to impose order and predictability on a chaotic situation (like an earthquake), you will fail (the breakup.)

The Dionysian strategy for ending a relationship. Dionysius was the brother of Apollo. As the deity of disorder and intoxication, he commanded fear and reverence. When it comes to breakups, the Dionysian philosophy is to simply go with the flow. Let go of the reins. Keep going with the flow of life

Breakup analysis is apollonian, not dionysian. Emotions and randomness bring people together. Dionysius is the god of winemaking grapes, which may explain why newlyweds get intoxicated. Do you think it is shocking when a couple just happens to get together and then break up?

There will be apollonian means of coming together and going apart for those who do so. Reason and an accurate understanding of the facts will bind people together, but new circumstances (or new causes) may separate them

Dionysian gatherings will break up in dionysian fashion if they break up in the first place. Separation will be like being flung out of an entrapping whirlpool. Only the dionysian beginning may be seen in the dionysian finish, and vice versa.

"Date to marry." is a phrase that is used a lot. That is how the ancient Greeks did it. Think about where you want your relationship to go before you start a date. To date in a dionysian manner is to seek respite, excitement, or simply the enjoyment of the ride. Some rides, on the other hand, will leave you sick to your stomach.

When two people get together, look at the breakup in a new perspective. There there no apollonian order to this? At the very end, there was none. If chaos meets your needs, great; if it doesn't, you should be cursing it instead of welcoming it. At the very least, you get to make your own bed.

Unforgettable Memories

I remember when I we were 17, when we were just friends, I had came over to your house after you were having a terrible time with your family. When I came you were wearing one of my baggy jumpers and and some shorts, not your most refined look but I always thought you looked like the most beautiful girl in the world like that.

When you got to the door you smiled, though I noticed the sorrow that it was hiding. Not more than a few seconds later you buried your head In my chest and sobbed for a long. After you were quiet we naively decided to put on a horror film when we both knew you got spooked easily. You spent most of the concealing your face with my shoulder. Once the movie had ended we decided to retire to sleep.

Once we had arrived to your room I proceeded to pull down the floor mattress and you cried “Noooo!You sleep next to me and keep me safe ”bc you were still scared by the film. I slid in with you and my heart beat fast and I couldn't stop staring into your gorgeous gray eyes and your lips. Just as I turned off the light, you put your lips to my cheek, my heart was so full of love that made me want to cry, a feeling which I seldom receive now.

I looked at you, blushed, and said “good night.” You flashed a sweet smile and pulled my arms about you. That was the moment I knew I had to tell you I loved you at some time. You told me you thought nobody loved romantically or ever had, even if you didn't feel the same then at least you'd know that someone loves you.you put your lips to my cheek, my heart was so full of love that made me want to cry, a feeling which I seldom receive now.

I looked at you, blushed, and said “good night.” You flashed a sweet smile and That was the moment I knew I had to tell you I loved you at some time. You told me you thought nobody loved romantically or ever had, even if you didn't feel the same then at least you' d know that someone loves you.you put your lips to my cheek, my heart was so full of love that made me want to cry, a feeling which I seldom receive now. I looked at you, blushed, and said “good night.”

You flashed a sweet smile and That was the moment I knew I had to tell you I loved you at some time. You told me you thought nobody loved romantically or ever had, even if you didn't feel the same then at least you' d know that someone loves you.even if you didn't feel the same then at least you'd know that someone loves you.even if you didn't feel the same then at least you'd know that someone loves you.

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Someone complimented me today!

I am 46, and I have never been truly complimented on my appearance throughout my life. My nails, clothing, maybe my bag and that is almost all the comments that I am getting. However, I seldom look at it right now. I do not think I am traditionally attractive and do not take into account a gorgeous girl's definition. You know what kind of females you see on the lovely street. I had a boyfriend never. Well, this female (client), today at work, was like "You are so beautiful." She was a little reluctant, I may say to me. But that was honest (the highlight of my week will most certainly be!!!) lol. Since then, I have thought about it. Yeah, I know that I should not concentrate on it because it is not all physical beauty, but it is still good to hear especially about how and when you are fighting with confidence. So simply I mean - if you want to congratulate someone, tell them, your day will be better!!!