「とんび」-重松 清 の本をプレゼントされて読み終わったところです。号泣！
１：１は時に重いのです。苦しいのです。大人側の役割としてはストレスリリーファー(?)を身の回りに用意してやることぐらいかなぁ・・・・でもこどもは実は強くもあるのです。おなじ強さを保てるように大人のほうが自己鍛錬必要かも。そして「海」になりたいです。ちなみにうちのストレスリリーファーはベランダ。不機嫌な娘を連れだしたり、私が出ると娘がおっかけてきたり。二人で外の空気を吸いながら、呼吸して、HUG。それ以外、かんがえつかないし（笑）
１：１は時に重いのです。苦しいのです。大人側の役割としてはストレスリリーファー(?)を身の回りに用意してやることぐらいかなぁ・・・・でもこどもは実は強くもあるのです。おなじ強さを保てるように大人のほうが自己鍛錬必要かも。そして「海」になりたいです。ちなみにうちのストレスリリーファーはベランダ。不機嫌な娘を連れだしたり、私が出ると娘がおっかけてきたり。二人で外の空気を吸いながら、呼吸して、HUG。それ以外、かんがえつかないし（笑）
living alone with a kid, sometimes it is really hard for there is no one else to be spoken to. i.e. if two are in a bad mood after quarreling or something, there’d be nobody to hit different balls naturally. In this book “Tombi”, a single father: Yasu, had a escapade: his sister’s bar and get drunk, chatted, cried, which surrounded by so many nice old buddies and co-workers. Sometimes he realized that his only son:Akira, were just left alone in his small house, so he tried hard to act as a father: went home where his son awaited him back. I just envy Yasu and Akira, for they had never moved(living in same area.) On a snowy winter night at sea shore, half sleeping Akira felt(told) that he was loved and cared by so many adults(hands). To give hands to those besides your family, things are not so easy in current Japan. Being a stranger, there ARE descriminations. Even same people apparently change their attitudes towards me after I changed my family style. Although there ARE ALSO some people who gave me hands when I desperately needed, no matter how short we have known each other. I thank for those warm-hearted people, and I also thank you who read this and allowed me to share my on-going feelings by clicking “like-it” buttons, and kindly taking time to comment, which certainly make me feel that I’m not alone on this blue earth. THANK YOU!
画像は2008/10/27＠鎌倉瑞泉寺 photo taken in Kamakura
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